In the midst of some recent turmoil, there was one blessed day of balance.
The Autumnal Equinox.
I thought there was no way I would be able to share in the wonder of this day.
During an equinox, when the sun passes directly over the equator, day and night are of equal length—we have the same amount of light and dark. It is a time of balance.
That elusive balance.
I don’t actively seek it because, as I’ve said before, I believe it’s unattainable—a recipe for frustration and resentment. But I do look for it in small quantities, for certain situations.
And every autumn, I have welcomed balance when it arrives on my doorstep, asking politely, with the light of the harvest moon, to be let inside.
September 22nd was smack in the middle of a mess, and I knew that day would go just as badly as the rest of the week had gone. I knew. No matter what I planned or how hard I tried, it was going to be bad. Horrible.
I also knew I was being extremely negative but I couldn’t muster any optimism.
At the time, my attitude seemed reasonable and the terrible outcome more than a little likely.
But the world keeps spinning, seasons change, time moves on. No matter what’s happening in your life, there is always something larger than you.
Taking a simple walk or standing under a tree often gives me this much-needed shift in my thinking.
The equinox provides me perspective. The Earth turns, continuing its cycle whether I’m prepared for it or not.
I tend to get highly disappointed when my grand plans go awry but am delightfully surprised when I anticipate trouble and don’t find it. Negativity in general? Not something I’d recommend. But, once in a while, it’s helpful.
There are two things I need to keep in mind.
The first is that forcing a good day rarely, if ever, works. Often, it backfires. The second is that acknowledging my day will not be as wonderful as I want it to be allows me to let go of all expectations.
And that, gentle readers, is how I stumbled over the roots of a genuinely good day, finding balance and joy in the midst of chaos.
Happy Autumn!
Yes, you’re now officially allowed to break out the pumpkin spiced beer, muffins, coffee, scones, etc. (And, as always, Happy Spring to my friends in the southern hemisphere.)
Can you force yourself to have a good day with positive thinking? Do your positive thoughts keep you going even if things aren’t perfect? Or do you find that your expectations are impossible to meet? If you expect the worst, are you pleasantly surprised or do you dwell in that negativity?
* Apologies for all the post questions. I’m having a yin/yang, light/dark, positivity/negativity bit of a time here and wondering how others deal.
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