Wow. So this is fun. I love reading posts from past years and seeing I’ve learned my lesson…
Every year around this time I say, “It’s going to be different.” Well, gentle readers, it’s not. It’s quite the same. Which is to say, I let myself get caught up in a shitstorm of stress and overwhelm by choosing others instead of myself, by over-committing, by working too hard on things that don’t bring fulfillment or happiness, by helping everyone but me.
So, last year, my One Word for 2018 was: Self.
It was a good choice. It worked. Some of the time. Not as often as I’d hoped.
The year before that, my One Word for 2017 was Accept. I did not accept anything. I sort of UN-accepted pretty much everything. I faltered. Failed. Moved on.
And…here I go again. Another year, another word, another promise. Despite everything, I really do believe in the power of focus words (and in the power of me not failing). Success to me and my One Word!
It’s difficult choosing just one word when we writers love language the way we do, but, unlike past years, it wasn’t too bad this time. I’ll say right up front, I did shop around for synonyms because it’s not a pretty word but, eh, what the hell. Here it is, my friends:
MOVE
As I said, not the most beautiful word but, seriously, check this out:
move
/mo͞ov/
verb
- go in a specified direction or manner; change position.
proceed, progress, advance
Proceed? Advance? Count me in.
- change or cause to change from one state, opinion, sphere, or activity to another.
change, shift one’s ground, change one’s tune
Changing opinion/activity as we speak (or, read, whatever). Already whistling another tune, my friends. Done.
- take action, act, take steps, do something
inspire, prompt, motivate
“she was moved to act”
Dude, just reading this makes me want to DO SOMETHING. Watch me take action. I am motivated! I am moved to act!
- provoke a strong feeling, especially of sorrow or sympathy, in.
stir up (an emotion) in someone
affect, touch, upset, disturb, make an impression on
“I was deeply moved by the story”
This. Yes. This is what I hope to accomplish with my writing so I’m keeping this one in here. I would love to provoke strong feelings in readers. Affect people. Even upset or disturb them with my stories. It’s all good as long as it makes an impression.
- make progress; develop in a particular manner or direction.
make progress, advance, develop
I’m marching here. I am. Advancing. Stepping ALL OVER the enemies: self-doubt, imposter syndrome, procrastination, stress, overwhelm… I am making progress!
I’m moving. And 2019 will see another book from me. (Preferably two.) Here’s to moving, my friends! ❤
Have you ever taken part in the One Word Challenge?
If you haven’t, why not try it? Or think on it a moment and leave one in the comments. What could your focus be this year? I’d love to hear what your One Word is for 2019.
Cheers, Sarah. Here’s to success for you.
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Thanks, Robbie. 🙂
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I have thought long and hard about this, since last year in fact. I can only narrow it down to too words. Hopefulness and improvement. I applaud you on your choice of word and Hove you move forward with elacrity 💜💜
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I love your two words. Both hopefulness and improvement are things I feel we can all use in our lives. (I know I can.) Thanks, Willow. 💛
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I know I can too 💜💜
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It’s a real challenge this. I think ‘pause’ might be my word. My challenge is to rush, to cram, to flit. I don’t smell the coffee enough which is probably best represented in my reading habits. I listen to audible books more than I read the printed word. And I write more than I read. Slowly. Breathe.
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That’s a fab word. I have a post about that from a few years ago. Pausing. I tend to rush around a bit, too. You’ve got to pause and smell the coffee brewing, my friend. I’ve pondered focus words like pause, mindful, present, breathe…but, this year, I felt I need a kick in the arse more than anything. If only I could write as Geofftastically as you.
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Oh stop it you kind person you. You don’t want to dumb down to my level… funnily the Textiliste and I were on the beach today and a couple were there, in deck chairs wrapped in blankets and reading. We both agreed we need to do that. Maybe not in February…
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It’s true. Own it. Geofftastically-written is a thing. Well, it is now. 🙂 Congrats on your newest release (which I have and am looking forward to reading). You’ve earned a pause.
Curled up on the beach reading in winter sounds wonderful. 💛 I love that.
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Oh and looking forward to the books, natch!
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(So am I…got to get moving. Seriously.) Thank you. 💛 Looking forward to your newest release appearing on my reader next week!
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Have a moving year! I wish you success.
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Ha! That’s awesome. I’m going to watch that when I’m feeling sluggish or full of self doubt. Thanks, Norah. Here’s to a year of movin’ it sweet & sassy. 😂
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Thanks, Sarah. I’ll try. 🙂
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I really like your word. It infers lots of action. My word is Open. I want to be open to everything this year
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It does! I felt I needed a bit more action in my word this year. ‘Open’ is a fantastic choice. It’s chock full of possibility. 🙂
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Sure is. Thanks Sarah! Have a great one 🙂
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Great word choice. Keep moving, travel Light.
I’m thinking this is a good year for you. (And for me too)
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Travel light. I love that. Another focus for me right there. (I sincerely hope this is a good year for us both.) 💛 Thanks, D.
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“Move” is a good word!
I did pick a word this year, “average.” I know, I know, it doesn’t sound cool, but it makes sense to me. Last year I had some yukky stuff happen in my life and felt myself slipping into a “why me?” mode. So this year I’m reminding myself that EVERYBODY hits crappy speed bumps now and then. I’m average. The universe is not out to get me.
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Yeah, ‘move’ doesn’t sound great, either. I did get caught on that for a bit. But, hey, whatever works. I lIke your word. I think we can all relate to the why-me-mode when life gets ugly. And you’re right. Everyone has something going on. Some of us have more difficulties in our lives than others but…you are not alone, that’s for sure. I’m sorry about all the crap you’ve had to deal with and wish you a better year in 2019. 💛
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Great post, Sarah, and I love your word! Woo-hoo. You’ve already begun. 🙂 You’re right that it’s hard to pick just one word. But I agree that having a focus is helpful, and it puts that energy out to the universe. Happy Writing and Moving!
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I’ve begun… Seriously. Here I go. Watch me move. I am moving. I’m nowhere near as prolific as you. I’m more of a slug, really, but if I focus hard enough, put energy out there, perhaps something magical will happen. *puts fingers to temples* *stares at laptop* *wills words to appear* Yeah, I’ll get back to you. 🙂 (((FOCUS)))
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The first sentence is the hardest. You can do it!
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First sentence is easy(ish) and one of my favorite parts of writing. It’s the rest of the journey that gets me. Your writing is like a vast ocean, mine’s more like a tiny, trickling stream.
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Cheering for you. It isn’t for me though. I like more of a business plan approach.
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Take me to your leader. 👾
Seriously, not giving up my focus for the year but could you lead me to one of your posts about this approach? It clearly works for you. I’ve read some of your writing posts but…something specific about the business plan would be interesting if you have one. Please and thank you!
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You can try this one https://coldhandboyack.wordpress.com/2019/01/02/2019-business-plan/ They exist for previous years too.
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Thanks, Craig.
That’s a good post. I don’t do resolutions, either. I’ve seen a lot of goals floating around the blogosphere and I’ve written a few not-so-organized-goals-for-the-year posts but there’s something I like about your word choice as a “business plan”. I don’t know… Gives it more oomph or something. Also, laying it out there kind of feels scary like you have to do it (accountability or something). ? Good stuff.
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I like the simplicity of this – I hope you move lots this year 🙂
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Thank you, Simon. 🙂
It is pretty simple yet effective (so far). Hope you have a great year.
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Thank you Sarah, I hope you have a great year as well 🙂
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Don’t move so much you’re not moved by what you experience. Wishing you a great year.
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Ah. Good point, Anne. I’ve got to keep a balance of moving and pausing in order to be moved by the new things I’ll be experiencing by getting off my arse and moving. 🙂 Thanks. Wishing you a lovely year, too.
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Hi Sarah, I like the word “move” because, you’re right, it has so many meanings. Great choice. I’ve never done this exercise. You’re good at it – maybe because you write poetry and short fiction, you know how to pare things down. Now I better get moving so I’m not late for work! 😉
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It does have many meanings. I love that. Though, like I said, I did search for synonyms feeling like my focus word should be a bit more…poignant? Pretty? Anyway, there it is. My alternative to resolutions. Move. 🙂
Thank you. 💛 I do tend to pare my writing down, that’s for sure.
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It was you who gave me the idea about one word last year. Last year, mine was focus – and I could do with more of that. This year, I have two – self-care and listen. Move is a great one in every way that you mentioned. Have to admit when I first read it, I thought about getting up from the couch and going to the gym, lol.
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Ooh, nice! I am really working on self-care this year. It’s a major focus of mine, too. And listening is always good…in many ways. (I know, right?! I see the word MOVE and I want to get off the couch and do something. Anything. It’s pretty effective.)
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Great post 🙂 Best of luck to you this year & look forward to your books 😀 After you last year’s post I thought hard & chose my word too (even wrote a tiny moto poem promoting it), sadly, it doesn’t really worked for me… it was ‘change’ (the word) & though tiny changes did occure, the ones I really needed are still unachieved… & I’ve no idea what word can help me this year, but I’ll think of it 🙂 Meanwhile all the best to you on your way ❤ x
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Thank you (on both counts). 💛
‘Change’ is a great word. Maybe you could sift through your poem and see if there’s a better focus word in there since the poem itself focuses on change. If that makes sense. That could be your new focus for this year.
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thanks 😉 I shall try ❤
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Good luck with moving (and being moving). No travel included in that?
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Unfortunately not. Maybe I’ll be able to sneak some in but, as of right now, things are not looking good for travel. Or, hey, maybe that’s just what I need. Move my arse to the UK. 🙂 Thanks, Graeme.
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You’d be very welcome here – but the best reception is always in the north.
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The north…pole? Not sure about those toy-toting elves.
Oh. Scotland?
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That’s a powerful word, Sarah when you unpack it and show what it can do. Fun to look back at previous years’ one-words, too.
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It is a powerful word. In many ways. Despite my recent failure at March’s writing goals, I am happy to report I’m doing rather well with this One Word. 🙂
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I like this choice. It’s uber versatile, as you have demonstrated.
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It is, right? 🙂 Thanks, my friend. Happy Mid-Year!
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